by Wolfdave
As your relationship matures, it’s important to give some extra attention to your sex life. Just as in any other part of your relationship, it is important to talk to your partner to keep the passion in your sex life alive. You and your partner may not have the same desire for sex as often as you use to do. But this does not mean the passion has gone.
In the early days of your relationship, sex was a world of intimacy and discovery. But as time moves on, children come along; you pursue your careers and manage household chores. And so you sex life gets neglected. Of course you still love each other and you both still have desires for sex. But once you get out of the habit of a sexual relationship it can be difficult to get it back again. The first step is to talk to each other. You obviously talk about every other aspect of your relationship such as; careers, household budget, your child’s school and the like. So it is just as important to talk openly about your sex life, in many cases it can actually bring your even closer together.
Just pick the right moment, not right after sex when your hormones are all over the place. Reassure your partner that you still love them, and then talk about your feelings and desires. Ask them for their thoughts and listen to what they have to say. If they are not ready to talk right now, then drop the matter, don’t push it. Just ask if they would please think it over and let you know their thoughts some time soon.
Many sexual relationship therapists recommend you watch a good sex video if the passion has faded from your relationship. You will probably discover that sex does not have to be about penetration every time. Instead, start by enjoying being in each others company. A kiss and cuddle on the sofa for instance. Make sure your partner understands it’s just a kiss and a hug and not a play for sex! Be more sensual with your partner. Touch each other and undress each other. A massage is a great way to explore each others bodies, or take a bath together, but still remember to talk and tell each other what you like. Even if you think you know all there is to know about each other, it is always worth trying something new.
It is perfectly normal as you get older for one or both of you to want less sex than you used to do. Be open about this to your partner and you can then work together on alternatives. Nearly all women like romance in their lives, so even if they have lost a little sexual appetite it is so important to be a ‘Knight In Shining Armour’ once in while. A few sincere romantic gestures could just be the spark that will re-light her passion.
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